Finding Strength in Unity Against Civilian Racism
The experience of childhood provides us with a safe haven in which we can bury our fears, shielding them from both ourselves and those around us. The experience of growing up can vary greatly for individuals, as many factors, such as geographic location, influence it. For instance, the west coast may offer a different upbringing compared to the east coast, and similarly, the northern hemisphere may differ from the southern hemisphere in terms of childhood experiences. Additionally, the influence of one’s community and culture, as well as the specific time period, such as the vibrant 1980s and 1990s, all the way through to 2010 and even projecting into the future of 2024, play significant roles in shaping an individual’s experiences. As an example, during my childhood on the east coast, I spent my time engaging in sports activities and creating mixtapes. Although it is that many young adults have engaged in similar activities, I believe there is a distinct boundary for the connections we establish, as they are exclusive to each individual based on their specific circumstances and personal choices.
Whenever the topic of my childhood arises, I reminisce about the happy moments, however, the distressing memories persistently claw at the edges of my mind, relentlessly vying for attention. I don’t pretend it was all good or all bad.
I made it through my youth and created countless memories, particularly with the people in our apartment complex and later on the streets of our neighborhood. The presence of laughter and comedy served as a welcome distraction from the grim surroundings and the pain that was symbolically represented. Life is comparable to being trapped in a sealed Tupperware container where crumbs accumulate along the edges. You can’t get out and only a fortunate few can satisfy their hunger from the crumbs. The connection between my friends as we navigated the streets, played sports, and steered clear of a detrimental system was a source of relief. Making the choice to join the military, even though it meant leaving behind my friends and scattered family, proved to be a successful move for me. It enabled me to effectively use the street smarts I had gained and apply them to service instructions and military missions.
But I wasn’t alone. There were many others just like me running towards something, just not sure what exactly it was - a better future? I would soon meet these brothers and build a long lasting fraternal bond.
Basic Brotherhood Training
The U.S. military stands as a powerful and enduring example of unity and camaraderie, often hailed as a melting pot where individual race and background fall away while duty to the nation takes precedence. It is within this esteemed institution that African American service members discover a profound bond of brotherhood that can offer a stark and often uplifting contrast to the challenges they face in civilian life fraught with discrimination.
While serving, they build lasting connections with fellow service members across racial lines, connections that are rooted in the shared experiences and common objectives of military service. This environment, characterized by a unique blend of discipline, respect, and mutual support, can feel like an oasis of equality where merit and teamwork predominantly define respect and status. In this setting, the usual barriers imposed by race seem to dissolve, standing in direct opposition to the racial biases and prejudices often encountered in the world outside the military’s embrace.
These black service members navigate two contrasting realities: one where their skills and contributions genuinely appreciate in a merit-based professional environment, and another where they encounter the pervasive and troubling effects of systemic racism in their interactions with civilian society. I write this based on my authentic life experience, and I recognize everyone is entitled to their opinion. However, it is important to tell the truth, as I emphasize in my commentary on articles on this and many other platforms, including online newspapers, that can manipulate the truth to create an alternate reality.
Keeping it Real as They Say
However, it is important to acknowledge that not all black service members experience systemic racism in their interactions with civilian society. While some may encounter discriminatory treatment, many individuals and communities genuinely appreciate their skills and contributions. In fact, the military itself has made significant strides in fostering a merit-based professional environment that values diversity and inclusivity.
Additionally, the military provides extensive support and resources to its members, including programs to address any instances of discrimination or bias they may face. Therefore, it is crucial to recognize that while systemic racism exists in certain contexts; it is not a universal experience for all black service members.
Military On-Time differs from Civilian Time - you are late if you are on time
Upon returning to civilian life, African American veterans may confront an unsettling and often jarring shift from the inclusivity and brotherhood of military life to the harsh societal exclusion and discrimination that persists in many areas of civilian life.
This stark contrast in experiences can have profound physical effects on African American veterans. As they transition back to civilian life, they may grapple with a range of emotions, including frustration, anger, and sadness. These emotions can manifest themselves in physical ways, such as increased stress levels, sleep disturbances, and even potential health issues.
No such thing as an Easy Day
The toll of societal exclusion and discrimination can be burdensome on African American veterans, who have already faced unique challenges during their military service. The sense of camaraderie and unity they felt while serving alongside fellow soldiers, regardless of race or background, may abruptly vanish upon reintegration into civilian society.
The harsh reality of discrimination can manifest itself in various forms, from racial profiling and prejudice, to limited job opportunities and unequal access to resources. These experiences can take a toll on the mental and emotional well-being of African American veterans, which in turn can affect their physical health.
The heightened stress levels associated with navigating a discriminatory society can contribute to an increased risk of developing conditions such as hypertension, cardiovascular disease, and mental health disorders like anxiety and depression. Sleep disturbances, such as insomnia or nightmares, may also arise because of the emotional turmoil experienced by these veterans. Thus, I am a vigorous advocate for mental health.
Moreover, the physical effects of these emotional struggles can further perpetuate a cycle of disadvantage. The stress-induced health issues may limit veterans’ ability to maintain stable employment or access adequate healthcare, exacerbating the challenges they face in their post-military lives.
Addressing the physical effects of the emotional toll on African American veterans is crucial for their overall well-being. It requires a comprehensive approach that includes providing support services tailored to their unique experiences, promoting awareness and education to combat discrimination, and working towards creating a more inclusive and fair society that values the contributions and sacrifices of all veterans, regardless of their race or background.
The military’s structured environment, which actively promotes inclusion, diversity, and equal opportunity, can seem like a completely different world when compared to the persistent racism that affects many aspects of American life, ranging from employment opportunities to everyday social interactions.
These experiences highlight a significant and concerning disparity between the inclusive culture within the military and the fragmented realities surrounding race that exist in civilian society. In order to bridge the growing divide, many African American veterans and currently serving personnel have supported for substantial social transformations that mirror the military’s triumphant framework of equality and mutual regard.
Similar to previous instances, it is important to note that the military’s model is not exempt from societal issues, such as racism. Individuals who do not uphold the core values of service members have unfortunately infiltrated the military. Instead of working towards progress and inclusivity, these individuals have unfortunately chosen to embrace a disturbing ideology of white supremacy, which undermines our collective efforts.
Each One Must Teach One
To sum up, the military service has not only allowed me and my fellow African-Americans to grow as young men, but it has also provided us with the opportunity to develop into mature leaders. Moreover, it has given us the chance to share our knowledge of self-love and pride, and in doing so, uplift and inspire others around us. Despite the constant distractions, deceptive influences, and promotion of hatred, we could achieve a significant amount. Our mission was never to attain perfection, but to cultivate a culture of resilience and dedication towards achieving our goals. In this culture, we help each other learn from our mistakes and keep pushing forward.
We don’t just die, our ideas, and thoughts multiply
Their unique and invaluable perspectives underline the urgent need for broader societal reforms that aim to match the military’s progress in racial integration and to foster true and enduring equality for all individuals, regardless of race or background (Johnson, 2020).
I have spent a lifetime of training my replacements at each (assignment) whistle-stop, even when those above me advised against it. Looking back, it was well worth it and so is the continued friendships and brotherhood. All around the world, military service members, men, and women faithfully serve in defense of our nation in austere environments and demanding jobs doing their very best to keep the enemy at bay.
Thank you military member for your kind thankless dedicated service.
References
Johnson, A. (2020). The Experience of African American Soldiers in the U.S. Military: Brotherhood in an Unequal Society. American Journal of Sociology, 125(2), pp. 342-378.
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